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Camping with children in the shop for many parents is associated with emotional 

stress. Children are not infinite, "I want," and "Buy!" Cause of acute rejection or the desire to buy everything without question. The rejection of the request and often causes hysteria among children, and that will attract the attention of the store. And inevitably have to buy something your favorite, if only to shut up and calm the child.

How to avoid an unpleasant situation in the counter?

Be aware that a child may lead to a request as follows:

• parents for a long time in the shelves where they are at eye level, are small toys and candy for the children.

• Mom or Dad to oscillate in the shop, and a child, left to himself, studying long shelves, racks and counters.

• saw a beautiful child, a new development of the game in the hands of another child;

• buy a gift for another child, such as holiday, birthday, along with her.

Analysis of each of these cases, you need to understand that the main source of provocation, we ourselves - parents. We often give themselves a reason to throw the baby fit. Therefore, in addition to excerpts from the child's education, it is sometimes necessary to pay attention to their behavior.

It is not necessary to store invites children to be reasonable and responsible, to contact their consciences. Mother phrases generally does not produce the desired result, but only frustrate the child. He feels weak and cowardly.

Demonstrative tantrums that fit children, and maintains a small percentage of mothers and fathers. Parents feel ashamed in front of others, and they go on about the wishes of the child. Children quickly learn how you can easily and quickly get the item you want, and start dealing with their parents. This is very important in the education of children who have to convince the words child and learn how to negotiate without screaming and tears of parents.

Report when buying or rejection, without conditions and recriminations, and help children to get used to the uniqueness of the behavior of the parents. Often, lightning and firm "no" so stop trying to manipulate, even without explanation.

Child "Buy!" Often means a lack of trust of the child and the need to strengthen the concrete of parental love. This is why it is not necessary to draw a comparison between the senses, business and shopping. After all, even the smallest person wants to be loved not only the successes and achievements.